Does life imitate porn or does porn imitate life?

A friend of mine recently posed the question, “Does life imitate porn or does porn imitate life”. As an avid traveler, he’d had the opportunity to meet and have sex with women from all over the world. He started to notice patterns emerging based on nationality, and a correlation with the countries porn. For example, he said that American women were very vocal, telling him things like I want your big hard cock inside me now or fuck me harder, and making lots of noise, in particular loud screaming orgasms.

He also spent some time in Japan and came to the conclusion that Japanese women have sex in the same way as their porn counterparts. They never come straight out and say they want to have sex, and during sex they act helpless and overpowered, with lots of dame and itai finishing with a very high-pitched kimochiiiiiiiiiiiii. At this point the ‘evidence’ could be taken either way – that American and Japanese women are influenced by the porn industry, or that the porn producers are influenced by the sex that their countrywomen are having.

Except that in his travels he also got to visit Israel. He described the women there as being a lot more creative and varied when it came to sex. There was no common style. Actually this is when he came up with his question, because it occurred to him that Israel didn’t have much of a porn industry. Perhaps because of this, the women were influenced less by what is deemed sexy by the porn industry, and free to do it whatever way they pleased.

Does life imitate porn?

I tend to think that life imitates porn. Ten years ago heiresses and celebrities did not go around allowing themselves to be seen in amateur porn films, and if they did appear in something like that, it pretty much meant the beginning of the end. Remember when Vanessa Williams was stripped of her Miss America crown because she’d appeared in Penthouse? These days you can watch Paris and Kim starring in their own homemade porn, Britney and Lindsay flashing their pussies, and even teen starlet Miley Cyrus in her own sexy photos. And where celebrity goes, the masses follow. Many teenagers today see nothing wrong with being photographed naked or videotaped having sex, despite the risk those pictures will end up on the internet. Porn is no longer the reserve of the professionals. These days amateur porn using real amateurs (not porn stars without make-up and poor film quality) are growing in popularity. I guess they are part of the life-imitating-porn generation. What do you think?

Oh and before I forget, in the name of science, my friend is looking for some German girls who want to party. Shizer ok.